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Troy13
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How do I masturbate? I'm [...]

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Hey guys (and girls)) i'm [...] years old at the moment, i just turned [...] a few months ago actually, anyway i dont know how to masturbate. its currently summer break for me and i want to learn how to masturbate since i hear it feels good and i want some way to pass the time sometimes, but i dont know where to start. plz help i dont know how to masturbate. :| also im a guy
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Craig74
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I’m sure you have probably heard this before but the best way to do it is just explore your body and see what works and what doesn’t (are you circumcised or not)
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Hi there Troy13, welcome to Scarleteen. Learning how to masturbate really is an individual process; our bodies and preferences are all different and there's no one way to touch yourself that feels great to everyone.
So, if you find yourself feeling aroused and wanting to masturbate at a time when you have some privacy, taking some time to experiment and see what kinds of touch feel best to you is the way to go. It's ok if it takes you a bit to figure out what works; some people figure out how to masturbate pretty quickly/easily and others take a little more time to find what feels good to them.
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Any ideas on how to? I know it’s personal, but I want to know other experiences and try them out!
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Re: How do I masturbate? I'm [...]

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We've got a good starter piece on this here: Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation. :)
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