Still no pleasure?

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curious_15girl
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Still no pleasure?

Unread post by curious_15girl »

I am 15 and I have had sex a few time but i get no pleasure. I also try to masturbate and i feel no pleasure. When I finger myself I do feel a little tingle but nothing else. I just got done masturbating with a cucumber but I still feel no pleasure. WHYYYYYYYYYYYY?????? HELLLPPPPP :oops: :oops:
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Re: Still no pleasure?

Unread post by Heather »

Before you do anything -- alone or with a partner -- are you feeling excited and aroused already?

Also, what things you're doing: are you trying a bunch of different things to learn what you like and don't? Or just doing what other people want and you think you're supposed to like?
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