Nope, I don't have a single idea, yet, at least. Other than just maybe trying to wait and stay firm on my current point.Sam W wrote:Hi Kittypink,
That seems to fit with her overall pattern of sucky, controlling behavior. Do you have any sense of what might cause her to lift that restriction so that you can get out of the house?
Well, basically what I'm telling her is to think in the middle. And how I'm doing that is saying that people say gay people are taking part in deviant behavior, so it's no different than people doing that, using it the way she sees fit.Sam W wrote:Can you tell me a little more about your current point (also, how did she discover what you'd been texting about)?
She's responded in a usually defensive way. And yeah, that's probably a good idea.Sam W wrote:Are you finding that she responds to that argument in a positive way, or does it make her double down?
It sounds like a plan for the future might be to delete any conversations where you talk about sex. Of course, that might not help if she demands it while you're texting, but it might head off a similar situation in the future.