so now im with her...
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Koro704
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so now im with her...
so, I got the girl I liked BUT now were facing the problem where shes not out ,and isn't ready to be, and loads of guys are interested in her and we have to be really secretive about it, how can we get aroud this??
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Sam W
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Re: so now im with her...
Hi Koro,
Congrats on starting a new relationship that you're excited about! It's ultimately up to you two how you want to go about navigating the fact that she's not out yet, even if there are some awkward or difficult conversations (with each other or with other people) along the way. With the guys who are interested in her, is there any reason why she her saying, "sorry, not interested" isn't going to work?
Congrats on starting a new relationship that you're excited about! It's ultimately up to you two how you want to go about navigating the fact that she's not out yet, even if there are some awkward or difficult conversations (with each other or with other people) along the way. With the guys who are interested in her, is there any reason why she her saying, "sorry, not interested" isn't going to work?