First off, I don't know if this counts in relationships, so if y'all moderators want, I can put this in another area. Okay, so I talked about this with Heather, but I'll happily field answers from anyone. So I'm straight 15M at a pretty small school. Because our school is so small, a lot of us who don't necessarily know each other hang out occasionally, so there are 3 or 4 big groups. Weirdly enough, most of my friends belong to my group, but have a lot of friends in another group. So my friend (we're all sophomores, btw), let's call her "Ann", has a good friend called "Toby." I don't really know Toby, but he's gotten REALLY into me recently, and it's freaking me out. It's delving into stalker territory, and as I said earlier, when I talked to Heather, she said it was borderline harassment. JSYK for anyone else, he's following me around, eavesdropping on me, trying to get closer to me in a physical sense (i.e. one time he kept trying to hold my hand and was really insistent on it and he dried to dance on me once, in public). I've left when he made me uncomfortable, giving him the benefit of the doubt, and I've made it clear that I'm straight and DEFINITELY not interested, but it hasn't done anything. Anne has said something to him about me being straight but he talked to another friend about how he thought I was gay and how we'd be so cute together. Keep in mind, we barely know each other at all. He then talked to Ann and another friend of mine who's like a sister to me, let's call her "Lindsey", about how much he liked me. He then kept hanging out with Lindsey and got a Grinder and showed her a bunch of stuff and said some REALLY nasty stuff about me that was like really sexual and inappropriate when she was being clear that she didn't wanna ta;k about it. Yesterday, Lindsey told him to chill, and he screamed at her (via Snapchat) about how she and I were making everything up and he freaked out. She told me this is a common theme with his crushes (like stalking them and stuff), and that it'll be okay. He hasn't said anything to either of us today, so I don't know if this is over, but I'm still really freaked out and disturbed. I was gonna talk to him about it but Lindsey did that so I don't know if I need to if he's gonna back off now? I'm just really shook, and wanted to tell someone about this. If he doesn't do anything else, should I just let it be? Should I talk to him regardless? I mean he knows I'm straight, but clearly that doesn't matter to him. I'm sorry I'm frenetic, I'm just really shook. Usually when someone likes me, it's a lot more normal, and I know them pretty well, and it's actually in the gender I'm attracted to. Not a stalker guy who I don't even really know or like. Additionally, this is all really embarrassing for me, and my friends don't realize how weird this is so they're treating it as a joke, and it's really making me annoyed/mad.
TL;DR: I'm straight. He's not. He won't leave me alone. It's freaking me and my friends out. Please help. Also it's maybe over? IDK