How do I compete with his ex?
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A.53
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How do I compete with his ex?
Hey guys I've been with my first ever boyfriend for almost 3 months and he's great. Everything is great except his ex is better than me in every single way! She can even do things in the bedroom that my body will never do no matter how hard I try! How do I deal with the fact that she is better than me? My insecurities especially with my body and the bedroom are ruining the relationship! It's gotten to the point whete I want to break up with him and find someone who doesn't have an intimidating ex just because I feel so awful about myself. I just don't know what to do, or what I can do to help myself!
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Heather
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Re: How do I compete with his ex?
There's big overlap here with your other post: going to close this one so we can keep the conversation going in the other. 
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