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Unread post by gossipgirlxo »

I feel that girls always face the pressure to have a "tight" vagina and such when in fact the vagina is a very durable and stretchy muscle to begin with. If I masturbate, will the guy be able to tell when I have sex for the first time?
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Re: female masturbation

Unread post by Calla Lily »

I don't think they'll be able to tell. I read somewhere on here that the vagina naturally tightens in excitement during sex, anyway. Unless you're mildly injuring yourself in your masturbation enthusiasm, I don't think you should be getting stretched out or anything.

(Not that I actually have any experience with sex yet, this is just based on what I've read)
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Re: female masturbation

Unread post by Onionpie »

Hi gossipgirlxo. Masturbation doesn't permanently change anything physically about your vagina, and neither does sex with a partner. So there would be no way for a future partner to know, unless of course you tell them yourself :) During arousal, the tissue around the vagina fills with blood so the walls of your vaginal canal can become engorged which may lead to a "tight" feeling, but it's not actually because your vagina is tightening.

For more on that, check out these links:
Innies & Outies: The Vagina, Clitoris, Uterus and More
Sexual Response & Orgasm: A Users Guide
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