...and other related phrases.
Not sure what it is people don't seem to get about how okay it isn't to try and coerce people to behave in ways they want by suggesting when they don't behave that way, they are not conforming to their own gender (or to the ideas about gender the person saying things like that has) or are somehow even betraying their own gender.
And really don't get how people are somehow missing that something like "man up" is the same thing as something like, "act like a real lady."
How does everyone else feel? And if you think you have clues about this where I am clueless, want to fill me in on how you think people saying this stuff are viewing it?