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by kiiiimibela
Sat Feb 06, 2021 12:30 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusing guy?
Replies: 1
Views: 1104

Confusing guy?

Hi Scarleteen, I’ve been broken up with my ex bf for a month or so now. Currently I am talking to this guy, but online. We text and he calls me almost everyday after I get home from school. He flirts with me and I flirt back. But, I told him two days ago that I like him. He didn’t think I was seriou...
by kiiiimibela
Thu Sep 03, 2020 4:21 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Plan B
Replies: 1
Views: 1422

Plan B

Hi, My boyfriend and I have decided to live together and since then we’ve decided to get pretty intimate. I am on birth control pills right now I’m just not as good as taking them since at times I take them and hour or few hours late or early. I don't miss any though. I take them everyday just few h...
by kiiiimibela
Sat Apr 04, 2020 8:18 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Letting go of BCP
Replies: 1
Views: 1139

Letting go of BCP

Hi, I’m currently thinking of letting go of birth control pills and just stick on using condoms. I currently don’t have a source of income due to what’s going on right now and my insurance doesn’t cover the pills. Do you think it’s a good idea? What are the side effects of getting off of the pill? I...
by kiiiimibela
Thu Mar 26, 2020 10:22 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: BCP and ECP questions
Replies: 2
Views: 1679

BCP and ECP questions

I have couple of questions. 1.) Would taking a birth control pill (Aviane) and taking emergency contraception pill (Contingency One) at the same time affect the effectiveness of the emergency contraception pill? (I took the ECP 4 hours after intercourse) (Also, what I mean by ‘at the same time’ is t...
by kiiiimibela
Mon Mar 16, 2020 10:56 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety in relationship
Replies: 5
Views: 2656

Re: Anxiety in relationship

The communication is usually fine, when I mentioned though that I’ve been a bit anxious about him and his ex two days ago he got a bit defensive and asked me why it matters. He also got upset cause he felt like I don't trust him. But then after a short while, since I withdrew from him being upset, h...
by kiiiimibela
Mon Mar 16, 2020 10:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety in relationship
Replies: 5
Views: 2656

Re: Anxiety in relationship

Hi Sam, Yes it has stopped for awhile now. He promised to help himself control it and he’s been doing good with it. He’s keeping reflections about his emotions and other stuff whenever he gets upset. I’m finding it difficult to trust him with this because of what he’s done. Since he’s lied to me abo...
by kiiiimibela
Mon Mar 16, 2020 9:32 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety in relationship
Replies: 5
Views: 2656

Anxiety in relationship

Hi, I need some advice. I’ve been feeling so anxious about this for awhile now. So let me give you a backstory. My boyfriend contacted his ex a while ago, around christmas to january they were talking and playing a multiplayer game behind my back. He would tell me he’s going to sleep but I caught hi...
by kiiiimibela
Sat Jan 18, 2020 4:07 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Contacting her
Replies: 1
Views: 999

Contacting her

my boyfriend recently contacted his ex to apparently apologize for making her feel awful for awhile after he broke up with her. they then continued to play a mobile multiplayer game together for awhile. he hid this from me and i only found out because i confronted him about why he has a game history...
by kiiiimibela
Sun Nov 10, 2019 9:46 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Talking to her
Replies: 3
Views: 2191

Re: Talking to her

I’ve thought about leaving him because of how he’s been acting. It’s just that I can’t get myself to. I really love him and whenever he realizes he’s wrong he always apologizes and he says he knows that his temper isn’t the best but he’s trying to change. I honestly feel dumb for not wanting to go e...
by kiiiimibela
Sat Nov 09, 2019 9:01 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Talking to her
Replies: 3
Views: 2191

Talking to her

Is it okay to talk to my boyfriend’s ex girlfriend about how he was when they were together? My boyfriend and I have been fighting lately and his temper is making me scared at this point. I was thinking to maybe seek advice from her. I feel its quite ridiculous but some part of me feels like it'd be...
by kiiiimibela
Wed Aug 21, 2019 6:36 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Dry swallowing the pill
Replies: 1
Views: 1345

Dry swallowing the pill

Is it okay to swallow the pill without drinking water after? Will that reduce/affect its efficacy?
by kiiiimibela
Wed Jul 31, 2019 1:28 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Implantation
Replies: 6
Views: 3278

Re: Implantation

Yes, I’m a bit concerned I might be pregnant but I’m just really concerned about whats going on. It’s the third day and I’m still bleeding. I don’t know if there’s something wrong with my health or I’m reacting negatively to the pills I’m taking. Is it possible that spotting caused by the pills last...
by kiiiimibela
Tue Jul 30, 2019 9:53 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Implantation
Replies: 6
Views: 3278

Re: Implantation

Just an update it switched colours again from bright red/brown earlier to pinkish red and it really isn't how much a period should be.. I’m so confused :cry:
by kiiiimibela
Tue Jul 30, 2019 4:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Implantation
Replies: 6
Views: 3278

Re: Implantation

Hey, thanks for clearing it up. Yes I’ve talked about these concerns to my boyfriend. We’ve always been using condoms for protection but just only 6 days ago we decided to try without one because I started using birth control. He’s very considerate of the things I suggest when it comes to this stuff...
by kiiiimibela
Mon Jul 29, 2019 7:05 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Implantation
Replies: 6
Views: 3278

Implantation

When does Implantation bleeding occur after intercourse? I had sex 5 days ago and now I’m spotting, apparently implantation bleeding takes 6-12 days after sex so I’m very confused as to why I’m spotting right now. (I started birth control 20 days ago could this be just due to the hormones the pill i...
by kiiiimibela
Fri Jul 26, 2019 12:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: pills and period
Replies: 1
Views: 1616

pills and period

Does my period start during or after i take placebo pills?
by kiiiimibela
Sun Jul 21, 2019 12:32 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: birth control effectiveness
Replies: 3
Views: 1579

Re: birth control effectiveness

I’m very confused now, cause I did some research and almost all websites said that I can take the pill midcycle yet I just have to keep taking the pill for 7 days and it will become effective.
by kiiiimibela
Sat Jul 20, 2019 7:57 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: birth control effectiveness
Replies: 3
Views: 1579

birth control effectiveness

Hi! So I started taking a combination birth control called Lolo tuesday (July 9th) last week even though i havent started my period yet. My previous period started on June 25th and ended on June 29th. Will the pill be effective now since I have been taking it everyday for 12 days now? I haven’t miss...
by kiiiimibela
Mon Jun 17, 2019 6:18 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: bleeding, again
Replies: 3
Views: 2088

Re: bleeding, again

so during the first time we tried we only had condoms and no lubricant plus i wasnt that turned on and he was being careful and asking me if it hurts so yeah it’s understandable that id bleed due to the circumstances.. second time we had condoms and lube but i wasnt really turned on as much again an...
by kiiiimibela
Mon Jun 17, 2019 5:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: bleeding, again
Replies: 3
Views: 2088

bleeding, again

soooo i don't know why but i bleed a bit after sex, like me and my boyfriend had intercourse four times now, my first one wasn't successful cause it hurt and i bled most likely because its my first time second one was still hurting and i bled again the third time we were able to successfully do it b...
by kiiiimibela
Tue Jun 11, 2019 8:15 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Discharge
Replies: 3
Views: 1578

Re: Discharge

hey, it doesn't hurt as much to pee anymore.. still kinda stings a bit but not as much as last night. plus I'm still having a pinkish discharge, not red. but just a bit. i dont have the clump thing anymore either this morning.
by kiiiimibela
Mon Jun 10, 2019 10:59 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Discharge
Replies: 3
Views: 1578

Discharge

ok so me and my boyfriend had sex today and its the first time we actually did it cause before it hurt cause i havent had sex before and now it didnt as much but after sex it hurts to pee and i’m having little bleeding like just drops of blood or so.. and i peed earlier and theres like a clump of mu...
by kiiiimibela
Wed Jun 05, 2019 10:27 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: dry humping
Replies: 1
Views: 1523

dry humping

Hey, so me and my boyfriend were just hanging out today but then we both got horny. Well we dry humped with no clothes on. i was a bit worried about pregnancy but he put a condom on the head of his penis and his penis wasnt wet at all so he told me not to worry. we weren’t tested out yet for STDs bu...
by kiiiimibela
Mon Jun 03, 2019 6:08 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Bleeding
Replies: 1
Views: 1176

Bleeding

So me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time (genital to genital) on like May 9th, that was my first tome before i lose my virginity, well he went halfway in but we didn’t continue because it hurt and my vagina started bleeding (kinda understandable, we also didnt have lube, also the ...
by kiiiimibela
Mon May 20, 2019 4:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: birth control
Replies: 1
Views: 2556

birth control

Hi! I’m interested in taking birth control, but I have some questions. Does it cause acne? Will it mess up my period? Which is the best for me? Is it possible to get it without my mom knowing? Will it be costly? I’m sorry thats a lot but i just need some information before I continue on.. If possibl...

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