and he whispered dirty stuff in my ear like performing oral on me cause its like my sweet spot ig

well should i report? i asked my friend and she said what he did wasnt intentional to be harmful so no but idk

and like with all i told you, like why shouldnt i tell the police like of his sexual assaults. they werent ill mannered ke violent but still uk

is like tapping or semi slapping someone hand away from u abuse? cause i was going to fix his collar and he like slapped my arm away, not hard but to uk redirect it and i said what was that for and he said sorry i thought u were going to pull on my chest hairs. then his cousin put some leafy stuff o...

no with the whispering thing in my ear that i mentioned. me and him were like joking and flirting and i was kissing his neck and so was he then he started whispering dirty stuff in my ear and i was like stoppp and he kept doinng it and he said he was kidding cause we were messing around but idk

we found better ways to argue like for me i dont cuss at each other and we try ro talk more rather than argue and i was asking if thts sexual assault/harassment

like he was like whispering sexual shit in my ear and it like tickled and i wanted him to stop but he kept doing it. is that like sexual assault or harassment. we were playing beforehand. he said he was joking with me too because me and him were like kissing each others neck and all that to make eac...

i like put some water on him and he got the droplets and was like flicking his fingers and getting it on me and i was like stop stop stop a lot of times and then later i put water on him again and i said stop a few times and he put water on me 2x to get even. is that like harassment ik he was just p...

ok and we were walkin and we say this lil snake and like tbh i wanted to drop a rock on it and i did but it aint hit then we poured water on it then i told luc to move it and he used his foot to move it to the side so it doesnt get ran over then it coiled up and luc threw the water bottle at it and ...

he wasnt trying to kiss me or anything he was like trying to turn me around ig to face him to talk to him ig idk

i was upset abt me not makin soccer earlier and ig he was tryna comfort me and i said like no get off like 2-3 times and i got upset cause he aint get off me and he said he was jus trying to comfort me

ok so i was like in the mood last night. so like we were doing it and it was fine but like when he came out accidentally he would ask if i was ready then he would put it back in but like it was doggy and i was uk doing it and it came out or close to it rly quick and it went right back in cause i was...

alright thank u

do u think its bad like he was tryna lay on my lap ig but 2x i think he had his head on my private area and i told him to move and he laid a 3rd time on my leg. i just didnt want him layin down there and like he said he never laid 3 times only 2 and he said he misinterpreted it cause he thought i ai...

alright thank u

my sports schedule and money i believe. do u think it will work if we like stay platonic for a while then get back together once we feel ready or if we want to

i mean this happened a few days ago in specifics but the name calling has been going on ever since we 1st got together. i dont have access atm.

and we joke with each other but we liked stopped that cause we would call each other names and ig i didnt like that. like i said wheres ur helmet referrin to him being challeneged and he said fuck u, go to hell. ik he was joking but still. and i call him a bitch or whatever but we talked about it an...

when we disagree we dont yell well at least me he never really yelled. and weve learned how to talk rsther that argue. and i found out like when i once said on here that he said he wanted to kill hisself that one time and he was saying it to his friend too. ig in expression of being so upset. ik he ...

do u think its like bad he was rubbin my finger with his and i was like stop 3x and i grabbed his finger and moved it and he said he didnt know what he was doing like he didnt know if he was hurting me or what. is that like pushin boundaries. it just felt weird on my finger

youre right. he has stopped that pattern tho and has really worked on it. i have to ask if he read them yet. hes been sick so i tolf him not to rush and do it when he feels ok. hes has and really has been trying to stop those habits and he had. were toxic like we argue a lot and i call names but wev...

ive sent him some of the articles as well

ok ive read most of them. me and him have a rly good intimacy with each other but in the beginning we never set boundaries and are just basically doing that now. what we have is unhealthy. i dont think hes abusive because it isnt systematic and he never intends to hurt me in that way, especially wit...

i get that and ik what i think. i just dont remember what happened it was so long ago. like i felt pressure and idk if it went in slightly or it was just pressure idk. thats why i asked if ur advice would be different if it was rape

well can u answer my question about the butthole thing then. does it change ur response if it is considered rape. like what happened is everything that i told u except categorizing it differently. if so does that mean its unfixable. ik we have stuff to work on ok but i want to know about that