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- by pianolover
- Sun May 29, 2022 10:16 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: What happend?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2192
im not sure what you mean by misgivings. but last summer we talked about living together temporarily but it didn't work out for different reasons. it was a small cabin space and he was kind of far from home than he has ever been. he felt unsafe there too but he would visit and help me pay for the sp...
- by pianolover
- Fri May 27, 2022 9:18 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: What happend?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2192
There were moments at the beginning that stood out but as we talked through them they haven't been like that but I guess especially lately we've been arguing more. We have been stressed because we're moving in together and figuring out money and everything. So, I'm more on edge and stressed and have...
- by pianolover
- Fri May 27, 2022 10:52 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: What happend?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2192
I feel like he is mostly respectful and accept my boundaries and he doesn’t push/force me to engage in things I don’t want. I’m a survivor of sexual abuse and things around sex can be triggering and confusing. Like he’s masturbated that past few days when I’m gone and I cannot help but feel disturbe...
- by pianolover
- Fri May 27, 2022 2:17 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: What happend?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2192
Trigger warning: I’m confused about a situation and what it means or what I should do. I don’t want to end things because this doesn’t happen ever but did happen once and I think about it. Also, my partner and I are moving in within a week. We’ve been together for almost two years and are in our ear...
- by pianolover
- Sat Feb 20, 2021 2:32 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: wtf
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4590
Honestly Sam I have no clue, heh
The talk went sideways and then forward and then backward. I do not know what to do. I'm only 19
- by pianolover
- Fri Feb 19, 2021 7:14 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: wtf
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4590
Yeah we talked about it and he hasn't done this before,
- by pianolover
- Thu Feb 18, 2021 2:09 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: wtf
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4590
My bf and I were having sex and mentioned he was going to cum, and then seconds pass, and we were still having sex, and I didn't want to stop, but I felt like I should check in to see if he did because we would need to change the condom. He lied about not having an orgasm because he wanted to keep g...
- by pianolover
- Wed Feb 17, 2021 4:59 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: sexual coercion
- Replies: 5
- Views: 11165
They changed their mind, and both of them initiated it. The other person did not bring it up again but was a little touchy later and then asked if the person didn't want to have sex still, and the person said they did want to have sex and that they changed their mind.
- by pianolover
- Tue Feb 16, 2021 11:40 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: sexual coercion
- Replies: 5
- Views: 11165
Hello,
If someone said they weren't up for sex and the other person accepted it but later on, they ended up having sex anyway. Is that sexual coercion?
- by pianolover
- Wed Jan 27, 2021 7:13 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Fear of SEX OR STDS
- Replies: 3
- Views: 13086
Hi Mo, I talked to my partner about the decision to pause on sex until I talk with my doctor and feel safe around the STDS part. Maybe pause after feeling less worried about STDs and take it slow after that because I have so much going on. For some reason, sex adds some anxiety to my life, which suc...
- by pianolover
- Tue Jan 26, 2021 3:26 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Fear of SEX OR STDS
- Replies: 3
- Views: 13086
I recently had sex with my new partner, and we've both been previously tested, and our results were negative & we had no sexual partners since, but that was months before we got together. So, I was still a little scared, but we had sex anyway with protection, but I could not help but feel uneas...
- by pianolover
- Mon Nov 23, 2020 12:37 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: jealousy over partner's xs
- Replies: 4
- Views: 2974
Right, they had sex with them while they were still with them.
I think I feel anxious that I won't be able to compare to them or that they got to be close to him that way.
- by pianolover
- Sun Nov 22, 2020 10:05 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: jealousy over partner's xs
- Replies: 4
- Views: 2974
I've been dating this person for a month now, and we've been talking since July (we know each other from college). I've learned that they have had three sexual encounters with each of their x's (we've never had sex), and it makes me jealous/anxious when I think about it. I've also have had my own ex...
- by pianolover
- Sun Jan 26, 2020 5:26 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Crush
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5152
Hello,
Thank you for your thorough reply I will refer back to this advice and I think there are some good examples of what being intense can be and how to cope with feelings using mindfulness.
- by pianolover
- Sat Jan 25, 2020 2:05 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Crush
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5152
Hey Horriblegoose,
I've been told that I was overly sensitive in the past and I've also heard being intense is a turn off by a few women not directly to me but about other women.
- by pianolover
- Sat Jan 25, 2020 1:58 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Crush
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5152
Hi Sam, Yeah, I believe it's my thoughts and getting nervous around a person it takes a lot of energy over one person it's amazingly unbelievable. I see them every week where we have to interact face to face and talk. Also, people suggest that meeting people in places that you have similar interests...
- by pianolover
- Sat Jan 25, 2020 3:59 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Crush
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5152
Hey Horriblegoose, I'm like a scatter plot when it comes to crushes always have been. I'm frustrated with crushes in general. And I don't know that I'd say I want the feelings to go away but they make me uneasy. When I say the realistic option is to move what I mean is when I get a crush I don't do ...
- by pianolover
- Fri Jan 24, 2020 7:21 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Crush
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5152
Hello, I'm in a situation where I've been attracted to a particular person for a number of months. I see him every week at a place we both go also at college. And we don't really talk to each other about our lives or personal stuff. I believe I'm a little obvious about my thoughts and feelings. Alth...
- by pianolover
- Sun Aug 11, 2019 11:05 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Confused
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2462
It has been a month since I've been active! I've been busy and havent found myself with any questions to ask. But scarleteen has been helpful in the past. I have a situation that has presented itself to me. Someone(a guy from work) I like has told me that they move a lot and relationships are hard f...
- by pianolover
- Tue Jun 25, 2019 9:30 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Difficult conversations
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2061
How can I talk to a potential romantic/sexual partners about negative sexual experiences and what can I except or should I except? what are some boundaries I might apply to these new relationships that will prevent the same things happening again like a sexual partner listening when you don't feel r...
- by pianolover
- Tue Jun 25, 2019 6:42 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Ovulating
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2079
What are some ways we can tell if we're are ovulating ? females and males
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