I guess to me, there isn’t really one type of masculinity I’d like to see. It’s more, I wish that the standard hegemonic definition would be deemphasized, or at least the more toxic elements of it. I feel a deal of cognitive dissonance when it comes to how I view my self in regards to gender. The pe...

Hello! I don’t know if it’s ok for me to continue this thread and change the subject to me, but I think this title and thread is pretty relevant to me as well, and I’ve shared a lot of similar feelings to BunsenBurn. I grew up in a progressive household, so I was never really given the ideas of regr...

Ok, sorry about taking months to reply back, it’s just that it took me months to process and understand. I’m in a much better place with it now, after sitting on both my feelings and the knowledge of my biases/experiences. Rationally, I knew that it stemmed from me internalizing outdated gender norm...

Hi, I’m back on this site after a couple years! This is all just speculation, but I think that I have a subconscious fear of male sexuality. Obviously, there’s nothing wrong with male sexuality, but I still feel as if I do for some reason. So why do I think that this is the case? 1)I identify as mal...

Hi! How is everyone?

I just wanted a place where people could share how they’re feeling. Whether you had a good day or a bad day, it’s always nice to share your day (unless you don’t want to).

(Half a year! Dang it) I’ve given the articles a good read, and I really enjoyed them! I’ve tried a few different things. I don’t find much of my body besides my penis to be very sensitive. I haven’t really experimented with positions besides standing and sitting. I’ve only used my hands, no externa...

Um, this isn’t anything super urgent or serious, but I’m not super familiar with how arousal and erections work. As a penis possessing person perusing probably not pointless knowledge, what can cause erections, and what are some symptoms of arousal. I know erections can happen with sexual stimuli th...

Hello! I am 14 years of age. Romantic and/or sexual relationships seem far off to me, yet I’ve been curious. I think I’m attracted to girls, but I don’t really know, as maybe I’ll find a really cool dude? I sometimes get aroused by female genitalia, but I don’t feel that much attraction. I do imagin...

Dispite what the text under my name is, I am a noobie...

(Please excuse me if the syntax of the title is all off, I don’t really code.) I have only been on one post, so I am very new to this site, but I think I like it! I was away from this site for a few months, and in those few months, I reflected on a few things, and I am cool with myself for the time ...

Thanks, I was nearly about to just give up on the subject. I’m wondering what more there is to this? My body is different and I’m cool with that, but maybe I would like to know why it might happen. I know there is only so much I can find out about this with only internet research, but does anyone ha...

I don’t really know. Maybe expectations are a something I’ve been thinking to much about. Regardless, thanks for your advice!

It is my choice. Each time I go in full of optimism to feel something new and awesome, but I don’t get that feeling. I generally am happy with my life, but I’m worried about my sexual future.

Hello! This is my first post. I’m a 14 year old male and masturbation isn’t doing anything for me. I’ve done it a good dozen times, and each time I don’t feel anything but slight disgust(slight). I do get somewhat aroused, and I’m pretty sure I’m orgasming(I’m ejaculating), but nothing feels good. A...