Hey Gluggaveður. I identify as genderfluid and can share my experience with you. In the past I used to have serious doubts about my gender identity. There was this nagging feeling that I had to choose between being masculine or feminine despite feeling both and neither all at the same time. Also, be...

I started on my friends Atari 2600. :) I love singing too, but I'm terrible. I used to sing to my daughter when she was younger. Johnny Cash. John Lennon. The Beatles. But now she just says, "Dad, please stop." What's German Acapella? My son is into screamo, emo and nightcore. Anything rea...

Hi L_I - I'm sporadic with my hobbies. But Heather and I cook and listen to music. And Heather plays and sings while I listen. I like photography too, but usually only with my iphone. I used to play video games, but they're a giant time suck and my TV broke so no more PS3 for me. Although I'd love t...

Nice! I’ll definitely check out that Ted Talk. And like Heather said. We can chat here and make this thread as long as we want. This is most definitely a safe place for big men to have a big chat thread. :) no need to make ourselves small. Is there anything else you want to chat about? I’m as availa...

Hey there. I’ve pretty much resigned myself to being in places and spaces that are not designed to accommodate my needs. So you know what I do? I claim my space as I need to. No, I don’t want the booth seat. Yes, bro, you’ll have to stop the man spreading and close your skinny-ass legs if you don’t ...

Glad my words inspired you! You said something that stuck out to me: ...it just does not feel like it is a good thing sometimes. For me, the only time it doesn't feel good is when I have to haul my fat ass up a flight of stairs because the elevator at work is broken, again. Or shopping for clothes t...

Hi there! I’m Heather’s SO. Yeah, I’m a big man. I’ve gotten bigger over the years, mostly related to issues of health and stress and just basic issues dealing with my mental health (using food as a coping mechanism, “thanks Mom. Yes, I would like another bowl of ice cream to make me ‘feel better.’”...