Unfortunately, yes.

If you haven't already done so, how would you feel about bringing up the options Heather and Sian mentioned (focusing more on manual sex, maybe introducing a toy, etc) with her and framing it as the two if you exploring new ways to find sexual pleasure together? I will try that... I do think maybe ...

Thank you for the responses. Yes, she does seem to enjoy the sex anyway (and of course I do), and has said as much (although when she got a bit tipsy lately her comments were that it is "good, but not excellent"). But if you want to get down to the real reason that this is such an issue fo...

Please help us out, because I am very distraught about the sexual situation with my girlfriend. She says that the ONLY way she has ever been able to climax is through vaginal penetration (with a penis and not a toy). But that mine simply isn't large enough to do it for her. My understanding is that ...