Heather thank you so much for reaching out to me. I’ve thought about the questions you asked and what u pointed out. I want my first time to be spontaneous and fun. Not something with so much heart and feelings if that makes sense. I don’t really want to have such a strong connection with the person...

So recently I had a guy who I have been friends with for 3 years ask me if I was dtf. Like a friends with benefits thing. And if I’m being honest I totally am. It’s just that I’m a virgin and I’m not sure what to do. I’ve done stuff with guys before like head and what not but not actually having sex...