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by wesley97
Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:00 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 18490

Re: Good love songs?

The Only Exception by Paramore and They Think We're Stupid by Ezra Bell are probably my favorites right now :)
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by wesley97
Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:57 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: When Was the First Time You Saw Yourself in a Story
Replies: 9
Views: 7473

Re: When Was the First Time You Saw Yourself in a Story

Oh my goodness this is a tiny bit embarrassing but I have really loved wattpad in the past and the first time I really saw myself in a character was in the main character of Just Juliet named Lena. At the beginning of the book she is dating a boy who she is not very interested in and then slowly com...
by wesley97
Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:45 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11164

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

Just wanted to pop in and add a little bit that I am in uni right now and still have many friends who haven't had sex yet and don't want to anytime soon as well as many friends who have and are engaging in sexual activities. When and if you ever want to have sex is a super personal thing and can onl...
by wesley97
Tue Mar 20, 2018 8:19 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Any girls here in a relationship with another girl?
Replies: 2
Views: 3843

Re: Any girls here in a relationship with another girl?

Volleygirl22, Me and my ex girlfriend loved exploring coffee shops, going for 'mini hikes' in city parks where we would pack lunches and then go walk around the parks and find somewhere to have picnics or going to art galleries and museums. Window shopping is also fun if you are good at not spending...
by wesley97
Tue Mar 20, 2018 6:49 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: How do you get motivated?
Replies: 4
Views: 5531

Re: How do you get motivated?

Hex #990000, I have a few things that I use to get motivated that might help you out: 1. in the morning I listen to music that gets me feeling happy and excited and ready to face the day, I find that being in a good mood increases my motivation so much. Everyone has different music tastes but one of...
by wesley97
Tue Mar 20, 2018 6:37 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11164

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

I'm so glad that my response helped you feel a bit better I was a bit hesitant in responding since I didn't know if anything I had to say would help but am definitely glad I did. I know that I'm not Mo and Heather but I'll keep following this forum too and would be open to listening to all the thing...
by wesley97
Tue Mar 20, 2018 5:00 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11164

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

Hello, I definitely understand feeling mad about yourself for the way your relationship with that girl turned out, I have had very similar experiences and it is a difficult place to be. Just because you were not interested in your relationship with her does not make you a bad person by any means. On...
by wesley97
Tue Mar 20, 2018 1:07 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Was it bad?
Replies: 5
Views: 4517

Re: Was it bad?

Victoria in British Columbia, Canada. I think the school I go to has a specific group to help with sexual assault but I don't feel as comfortable going to something at my school just because I don't want people to recognize me or anything like that.. I have created grounding boxes in the past and th...
by wesley97
Tue Mar 20, 2018 9:16 am
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Was it bad?
Replies: 5
Views: 4517

Re: Was it bad?

Hi Sam, I have had counselling for other things but never to specifically talk about those experiences. I am open to counselling and was thinking of going to my schools counselling centre but their weight times are very long and the services are not specific to any particular kind of trauma. I would...
by wesley97
Mon Mar 19, 2018 9:49 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Was it bad?
Replies: 5
Views: 4517

Was it bad?

So around one year and a half ago I was in a relationship with someone named Rhys and he was quite abusive and there were many negative sexual experiences in that relationship that I think would qualify as sexual abuse, there was never an explicit yes or no but lots of the time I would instigate som...