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by J.D.
Mon Apr 23, 2018 5:33 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Sorry if I've Said This Already...
Replies: 8
Views: 6227

Re: Sorry if I've Said This Already...

Oh thanks! That's such a great relief!
by J.D.
Mon Apr 23, 2018 4:28 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Sorry if I've Said This Already...
Replies: 8
Views: 6227

Re: Sorry if I've Said This Already...

Sorry for the late response! I don't really know what I want, in all honesty, I just feel like I'm sort of missing this part of myself that everyone else has. Like the part where you have to wanna be physical with people and watch porn and stuff. I don't really care about feeling like that or doing ...
by J.D.
Tue Apr 17, 2018 6:09 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Sorry if I've Said This Already...
Replies: 8
Views: 6227

Re: Sorry if I've Said This Already...

That's a good idea. TBH, my friends aren't sex-crazy (or even relationship crazy). There are a few that my friend called "flaming heterosexuals" as he's tried to get with 6(?) girls this school year alone, but for the most part it's not too bad, so I don't know how much if I need to distan...
by J.D.
Mon Apr 16, 2018 9:46 am
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Still feel like it's my fault
Replies: 5
Views: 6527

Re: Still feel like it's my fault

Hey, Raymie! While some people do like it when girls play 'hard to get', the stigma that EVERYONE likes it is 100% false! Your compassion and generosity will help you find that special someone, and some good bfs/gfs until you find the one. It may look bleak right now, but if you are patient, I genui...
by J.D.
Mon Apr 16, 2018 9:42 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Sorry if I've Said This Already...
Replies: 8
Views: 6227

Re: Sorry if I've Said This Already...

First of all, I'm sorry about the paragraph breaks! I'll be better about that in the future! "But here's my big thing with this post: it just sounds like something you don't actually want or have an interest in right now. So, why focus on it so much? Why assume something is wrong? Why not just ...
by J.D.
Sat Apr 14, 2018 8:09 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Sorry if I've Said This Already...
Replies: 8
Views: 6227

Sorry if I've Said This Already...

So I don't know why, but like I don't really have the ability to sex except through a scientific lens. I used to not able to when I was younger, but for about a few years I just haven't been able to. Maybe it's cause it's less taboo and I understand it now, but I just can't. For example, I was onlin...
by J.D.
Mon Mar 26, 2018 4:01 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11067

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

I think that they would, and that it sounds like a really good idea. And what you mean does make sense in your second paragraph, and it helps a lot!!
by J.D.
Sat Mar 24, 2018 9:11 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: This is Creepy, Y'all.
Replies: 11
Views: 4846

Re: This is Creepy, Y'all.

I totally understand it thanks a lot.
by J.D.
Sat Mar 24, 2018 9:09 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11067

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

"It sounds like one of the things that might be stressing you out right now is that you're feeling like the point at which you'd have to have the "no, not into sex" conversation with a partner has suddenly moved closer due to the fact that you've discovered more people have sex in hig...
by J.D.
Sat Mar 24, 2018 9:03 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Ace or Apathetic?
Replies: 10
Views: 8436

Re: Ace or Apathetic?

I totally get that. It's really nice to hear that I can have a relationship. It means a lot.
by J.D.
Sat Mar 24, 2018 9:01 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11067

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

That does clarify it a lot, and I'd LOVE help with that. It's not that big of a deal, but it still gets on my nerves a little, so I'd love some help. And thanks a lot to wesley97!!!!
by J.D.
Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:39 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11067

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

First off, I'd have to agree that 'normal' is a totally weird word now that I think about it! I meant that I wasn't gonna tell my parents, not my partner. I'd let my partner know, but just with my parents, I dunno. I know I SHOULD tell them when I have it figured out, it's just really scary and daun...
by J.D.
Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:08 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11067

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

Also, I forgot to mention, but I have another factor giving me lots of stress. My parents and I were talking (I don't really remember about what) and they kind of out of the blue asked me if I was gay or what. I said 'no' and said 'it's either girls or nothing, haha!' They said that it definitely wa...
by J.D.
Thu Mar 22, 2018 6:31 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I'm religious but I'm not straight and I hate myself for it.
Replies: 9
Views: 9231

Re: I'm religious but I'm not straight and I hate myself for it.

Hey, Crimson, (this only applies if you're christian, although I would have to assume that other religions have similar views on same-sex attraction, but I don't know) from what I've seen, you're about my age, and going through a similar thing as me. Of course, you're wondering if multiple genders a...
by J.D.
Thu Mar 22, 2018 6:20 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Ace or Apathetic?
Replies: 10
Views: 8436

Re: Ace or Apathetic?

It's alright! Y'all have so much more important and urgent things to deal with, I really think that's a good metaphor, and I hadn't thought of it in that way. So I don't know if I can ask this, but since I'm pretty young (15, almost 16), I dont really know. Is it possible for an ace and a sexual per...
by J.D.
Thu Mar 22, 2018 6:12 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11067

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

Thanks so much! Sorry for the late response, I've been a little unavailable recently. So I've already realized that I was a little different, just because my family and I are religious, and they take the "NO PREMARITAL SEX" thing pretty seriously and have drilled it into me and my brother ...
by J.D.
Tue Mar 20, 2018 5:30 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11067

Re: Maybe Asexual and Scared

To Mo and Heather: Honestly, I don't know exactly what kind of help would help the most. I know that experience is the biggest helped but if this makes sense, I know so little about all of this, I don't know enough to even ask questions. I would (if possible) like any help possible about anything, b...
by J.D.
Tue Mar 20, 2018 9:59 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Maybe Asexual and Scared
Replies: 15
Views: 11067

Maybe Asexual and Scared

So I know I've posted something about this in the past as sort of a hypothetical, and if I should post this to there please just tell me and I'll do it. Basically I've heard of with a lot of asexual people, they have an "emperor's new clothes" style realization where they thought how they ...
by J.D.
Wed Mar 07, 2018 11:39 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Tell us about your sex education experiences!
Replies: 14
Views: 8010

Re: Tell us about your sex education experiences!

I go to a small Texan private school, and I've never had any, really. It's not a crazy conservative or religious school, they just kinda dropped the ball on the subject. In 5th grade, we did about 2-4 weeks on anatomy (teacher showed us diagrams we had to label, and nothing else), but outside of tha...
by J.D.
Wed Mar 07, 2018 11:35 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Too Much / Not Enough
Replies: 3
Views: 2518

Re: Too Much / Not Enough

I would agree with those points, definitely! And for the slowness thing, I agree with that too, I just was meaning for farther down the road, and I wanted to know what to expect. Sorry if I was unclear about that! And your message of people being so different is a GREAT point. Thanks for the quick r...
by J.D.
Wed Mar 07, 2018 11:01 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Too Much / Not Enough
Replies: 3
Views: 2518

Too Much / Not Enough

Okay, so I went out on a date with a friend of mine over the weekend. It was good and fun, and we're going out again this weekend! So we aren't really sure if we're a "thing" or not. We've had a conversation about it, and we aren't really sure what we are yet, since we've only been on one ...
by J.D.
Sat Mar 03, 2018 6:32 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: This is Creepy, Y'all.
Replies: 11
Views: 4846

Re: This is Creepy, Y'all.

And sorry for the late response I haven't been online recently cause of a HUGE algebra test I had to study for.
by J.D.
Sat Mar 03, 2018 6:31 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: This is Creepy, Y'all.
Replies: 11
Views: 4846

Re: This is Creepy, Y'all.

Thanks so much for the support for all of y'all! I think he's done now (hopefully). He was (idr if I mentioned this or no) a little snarky to a friend afterwards but he's leaving me and my friends alone to the most part, which is pretty good. I don't want to blow this up into a huge deal if he's don...
by J.D.
Thu Mar 01, 2018 7:02 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 18202

Re: Good love songs?

@Jacob if you're okay with explicit songs, I have a few raps that might do the trick. See You Again - Tyler, the Creator (if you can look past Tyler's pre coming out comments, this song is beautiful and I can't stop listening to it, and it's barely explicit), Ms. Jackson - OutKast (again, not too ex...
by J.D.
Thu Mar 01, 2018 6:06 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: This is Creepy, Y'all.
Replies: 11
Views: 4846

Re: This is Creepy, Y'all.

Additionally, i feel i should add about the whole “not wanting people to think i’m gay” thing, is that i’ve been a little bit unsure of what i am, orientation-wise. basically, and i know how dumb this sounds, believe me lol, but i’m pretty self conscious and i don’t want people figuring me out or th...

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