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by bikinksterboy
Wed Apr 17, 2019 2:46 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Boundaries
Replies: 6
Views: 324

Re: Boundaries

the way I described it was slightly less declarative, because it can be hard to make definitive statements about feelings for me, but I tried to both keep it open while still making it clear what I felt: "this is getting a little intense. we're bordering on some boundaries here. Specifically 'X...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Apr 17, 2019 2:38 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Boundaries
Replies: 6
Views: 324

Re: Boundaries

the last time I remember recently communicating, or more accurately reaffirming a boundary was in a role-play I did recently (since my partner and I are long distance and we can't really meet up any time soon, we often do sexual rp in text). it got very kinky, and my partner, in the dominant role, g...
by bikinksterboy
Sat Mar 09, 2019 9:59 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Writing and/or drawing erotic stories/ pictures: A convenient way for some to enjoy sexy things and the sort.
Replies: 9
Views: 1915

Re: Writing and/or drawing erotic stories/ pictures: A convenient way for some to enjoy sexy things and the sort.

this is only tangentially related and may violate the illegal-activity-posting rules due to my age, but another area of this that I really like is taking sexy pictures of myself and keeping them in secure places to just admire and revel in it, almost always deleted shortly afterward. Anyone else do ...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 29, 2019 3:42 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Your partner's politics
Replies: 4
Views: 1931

Re: Your partner's politics

My partner and I generally share a lot of the same political views but we just come at it from different perspectives. Ethics are ultimately more important to me than the specifics of political belief, and my current partner very much agrees with me on moral and ethical matters. If you have a politi...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Jan 23, 2019 5:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 3688

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

ah, I just found it; I didn't see it before. thanks!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 22, 2019 6:27 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 3688

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

(uh, so what's the current status of that?)
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:58 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: impact of circumcision
Replies: 1
Views: 1153

impact of circumcision

this is a very personal subject that probably doesn't have a "right" answer but how much is really "lost" in male circumcision? like I understand there are nerve endings there which can make it more sensitive in certain ways, but just how much does this really effect anything at ...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:53 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Bodies Linklove
Replies: 1
Views: 1815

Re: Bodies Linklove

the "guy's guide to Body image" link is deprecated, I think I've found the current updated version of it

https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/male-bodyimage.html
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:40 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: What are...
Replies: 8
Views: 2837

Re: What are...

(idk if it's appropriate to add to this old of a thread) 1) this site 2) youtube 3) Tumblr, although increasingly less so with the recent purge they had with their draconian changes in community guidelines 4) this one is weirdly, like super weirdly specific, but mimir.net, a website dedicated to in-...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:14 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: YAY!
Replies: 12
Views: 3515

Re: YAY!

I don't know if this thread is even remotely still active, but I think it's pretty awesome that I've gotten three college acceptances in the past week
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:09 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: ball shaving?
Replies: 1
Views: 1254

ball shaving?

this is probably a very simply and easily answered question, but I wanted to ask here because I trust y'all more than reddit or mens health, but is it even remotely safe and/or viable to shave the scrotum without causing serious damage? if so what's the best way or at least the best way to minimize ...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: apologizing
Replies: 2
Views: 842

Re: apologizing

Something I'd say I look for in an apology is, depending on the circumstances, acknowledgement of what the person did or didn't do as opposed to the effect of the action. Unless the action itself could be good in a different context, saying things like "I'm sorry that offended you" seem mo...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: apologizing
Replies: 2
Views: 842

Re: apologizing

as an admitted over-apologizer myself, I've found myself guilty of apologizing and then turning the apology into a sort of narrative itself, going into far too much detail to the point where the original sentiment is lost, or describing things in a way that can sometimes unintentionally end up being...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 7:49 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 9681

Re: Good love songs?

Just The Two of us is another
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 7:48 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How Do You Choose a Partner
Replies: 5
Views: 3465

Re: How Do You Choose a Partner

a lot of this info is probably mangled in some way or another because none of these relationships except the last ever were in person so it's all kind of a blur (does this count as thread bumping/necromancy btw? if so is that sort of thing allowed here? I don't remember)
by bikinksterboy
Fri Jan 04, 2019 2:22 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 3688

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

yeah, I still use that email
by bikinksterboy
Thu Jan 03, 2019 6:13 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 3688

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

(I think that I might be in a place now to at least try out the whole volunteer thing btw)
by bikinksterboy
Wed Jan 02, 2019 6:16 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 9681

Re: Good love songs?

bikinksterboy wrote:"Take On Me" of course, but keep in mind that one may be


I just now realized that I never finished this sentence. I don't know what I was even going to say.
by bikinksterboy
Wed Dec 19, 2018 12:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How Do You Choose a Partner
Replies: 5
Views: 3465

Re: How Do You Choose a Partner

I 6- Following this I met someone through the circle of friends that had formed around me and the former partner who had rushed me into things, and with them it was more of a situation where we started doing sexual and intimate things but hadn't really thought about the nature of our relationship u...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Nov 28, 2018 3:33 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 3688

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

(yeah, that email is still active, and right now I don't know but we can talk more over email or PM)
by bikinksterboy
Tue Nov 27, 2018 5:57 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 3688

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

I think it's mainly because of how committed I am to my current relationship, things being the way they were that we never really broke up, I'm sort of afraid that some of those feelings will come back
by bikinksterboy
Tue Nov 27, 2018 5:47 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 3688

obsession over possible ghoster ex?

Today, I sent a message to the number one of my exes (whom I technically never actually broke up with, we just had a long-distance relationship and lost contact with each other, and her number was dead for the longest time) gave me, and I got a response from a totally different person! For a long ti...
by bikinksterboy
Mon Nov 26, 2018 4:10 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Two truths and a lie
Replies: 37
Views: 5712

Re: Two truths and a lie

solalreclipse94 I'm doubting the one about Panic! At The Disco
-I’ve been a fan of The All-American Rejects since I was 9ish
-I extremely dislike the genre of high fantasy
-One of my cats is named after a prince, and the rest of his family is likewise named after the British royal family
by bikinksterboy
Fri Nov 16, 2018 3:22 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Condom review
Replies: 1
Views: 1829

Condom review

tomorrow I'm meeting up with my long-distance partner for his birthday, and as of right now it's likely that we'll have sex. before I go running off for that, could I get a quick rundown of condom procedure?

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