This isn't exactly an answer to the question, but this is something we read in class about queer identity and queer politics. In case anyone was interested in reading about that, it's pretty cool.

http://www.isabelcporras.com/punks%2Bbu ... Bcohen.pdf

From my personal experience, it's very easy for me to get off when a guy is using his fingers, but I have almost NEVER gotten off from oral sex alone, no matter what. I think it's the stronger pressure from fingers that tongues just can't replicate. There's no rulebook that says you have to get off ...

So, putting aside the need to maybe lie to your parents about what happened, I would say that lying to your doctor would not be helpful. If they know it was an injury caused by a human mouth, that would help them figure out how to treat it. And as a doctor, they're not supposed to tell your parents ...

Also on using tampons, it might be better to try putting one in when you're NOT on your period, so there's no pressure to get it done. Take an hour and lay on your with a handful of tampon and a hand mirror and try them out without worrying about making a mess if you don't get it the first time. Or ...

Hello!

EclecticGeek, you say you roleplay as non-male in chat rooms because you find it fun, for clarification, do you wish you could play that role OUTSIDE chatrooms too, like you could live that role in day to day life, is the fun part confined to just the online persona, or something else?

You might be interested in this movie then: http://therepresentationproject.org/film/the-mask-you-live-in/ "The Mask You Live In follows boys and young men as they struggle to stay true to themselves while negotiating America’s narrow definition of masculinity. Pressured by the media, their pee...

My gender does not bother me. When I was little, my mom dressed me in fairly neutral clothing, nothing was pink, I played with trains, no princesses etc. I guess I tended towards tomboy, I always had best friends that were boys and girls in elementary school, and always played with the boys at reces...

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"I didn't finished halfway through and left." Hi LovelyStar! I just wanted to add onto what everyone else is saying with a small thing. There is nothing wrong with leaving a situation, sexual or otherwise, if you start to feel uncomfortable. Showing up somewhere is not equivalent to signin...