There are sex toys designed for that purpose. (I'm not sure how graphic I'm allowed to be...) Some fit around the penis, others are more... freeform. Clean them after use with a special cleanser and store. It is important to work on your OCD. This may be a good middle ground to keep fluids from trav...

Links... no idea why they turned out so weird Hope this helps you. IBS ties into this. PT has helped me tremendous. Also, I know it is super expensive but find a good holistic doctor as well. I had a test done to find out how messed up my GI trach was. Amazing results from finding out what was in th...

Get a second opinion from another GYN. While I can't diagnose you ***I do not claim to be a doctor *** I think you might want to look into Pelvic Floor Dysfunction. This little beast causes all kinds of problems. When you orgasam the pelvic floor spasms. Usually that's awesome, not so much for women...