Bad reputation

Claire asks:

Okay here's my problem. I'm 14 and I've had sex with only one guy but a bunch of times and it got around in my school. I really cared about the guy I had sex with. It's not that I didn't like it but after things didn't work out I finally decided I was too young for sex. But now every guy I date or go out with, that's all they want. I can't seem to find someone to just like me for me and not just because they think I'll have sex with them. I don't know what I should do. Can you help me?

Heather replies: